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Day 357: DIP Tip: Pushing through resistance to finally resolve the past

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Sometimes I really resist a DIP assignment because I experience it as being 'not relevant to me anymore', but - where I recognize that I haven't 100% cleared the point that the assignment is dealing with and so I do see that this experience is a justification / postponement.

When I see these points I push myself to investigate different words and memories until I finally break through with identifying the specific memory to work with, and walk through it in writing and see dimensions of myself / a reaction pattern that I had not yet seen before where, I see so specifically my point of Self Responsibility and Self Honesty in how I contributed to creating a certain event in the past - that I'm finally able to Resolve this past event within myself because I finally see how to move forward with self forgiveness and Solutions in redefining how I will now approach such moments in the future - where, the memory no longer exists as a lingering emotional charge that pops up fr…

Communication Hack: Putting a Guard in Front of Your Mouth

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One of the primary functions of Self Honesty is checking what you are experiencing in yourself as you are placing words in Reality - whether spoken or written - to determine whether you are possessed by a compulsion like spite, blame, reactions, judgments, righteousness, ego --- so you can then stop and take self responsibility to place a guard in front of your mouth and work on yourself until you are able to place Words in Awareness without creating unnecessary consequences for yourself and others.
The concept of 'putting a guard in front of your mouth' originates from the Bible, as I understand it. Some years ago I heard this concept placed in the context of what these words would imply in relation to Self Responsibility. I think it was Bernard Poolman who first placed it in such context.

I placed the 'Guard' principle in my own words according to how I've experienced and applied this point of Self Honesty and Self Responsibility for myself in relation to the…