Real Love is only Possible with Self Forgiveness
You cannot actually 'love' another person -- what you are experiencing, is YOUR need for fulfillment, and YOUR need to control their behavior, so that you can feel better about yourself. It's brainwashing. You call it 'love'." -Bernard Poolman in the discussion, The Mathematics of Stickmen.
Real love is to do what is best for all -- but to do this you have to love yourself enough to give up your desire to control another to make you feel better about yourself.
This is why human beings require Self Forgiveness -- you must give yourself to yourself -- whereas currently you are given to a system of make believe that you've been taught, that you have Accepted, that you have Allowed, which all relationships in this world are based on -- where you believe some are special and give you fulfillment when in fact how can you ever be fulfilled if you cannot fill yourself with yourself? Take away the person you 'love' - and all of a sudden you are empty. Yet, your love was only a feeling you created in yourself! Therefore, human beings are actually Possessed by their own self-created demon called 'love', which requires to control and suck the energy of another being, in order to generate the feeling you desire to feel! And it's all taking place INSIDE YOU! You are in fact de-manned by your own self created Demon called 'love'!
The 'love' and 'fulfillment' you feel is not coming from another - it is a feeling you have created in your own mind - you are feeling your own mind projected unto another. The question is, are you ready to stop this self-abusive system of self-separation? Are you ready to stop manipulating and possessing yourself, and manipulating others to maintain a feeling? Are you ready to expand your consideration to what is best for All Beings in this world? Are you ready to love All Life Equal through Loving yourself as Life?
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