A Free Spirit's Journey to Live Effectively in the Physical World

Thursday, October 20, 2016

Day 333: Redefining Words: Patience and Impatience

I was inspired by the Reptilian series interview about Patience, to investigate the word Patience for myself and redefine it.

You can hear the interview here:
Patience: A Patient of… - Reptilians - Part 546

So, let's look at Patience.

It seems that Patience goes hand in hand with Impatience.

When I look at the word Impatient, some interesting things emerge:

I'm Patient -- I'm Pace - I am Pace -- I am this Pace, I am the Patient of MY Pace -- that would be where I'm Tying and restricting myself - as in a straight jacket that a Mental Patient wears, lol, to the Pace that I AM defining myself and the moment according to. And, this would thus be why when I'm 'Impatient' - it feels like 'I'm being held back' by the current circumstance / time frame which, is not aligning to 'My Time Frame'.

So, to live Patience practically in physical space and time where - things can happen that are not planned, would be the following:

Pacing myself to the Pace of what is possible within the current Space Time moment through adapting, adjusting, changing, letting go of my preferred, planned, or anticipated time-frame for reaching / creating a given goal, responsibility, outcome, need, or want.

This gives me the framework for identifying the WHY within the experience of impatience. For instance, identifying - what is the need, want, outcome, preference, goal related to the moment, and what is the Time Frame I have defined it within, which is causing the experience of being held back / impatience.

In assisting and supporting myself to live Patience within and as this new definition, I prevent Impatience - I prevent myself from becoming the patient of the moment.

Of course within this, it's also to realize that I can still push myself to move faster / more effectively / find shorter routes to goals, etc - but the emotional / inner friction experience of Impatience is actually not required for this, because it's a matter of Self Honestly assessing the situation / factors involved in a time frame, and identifying where / how more effective actions / self movement is possible to 'speed things up'.

And the key is Breathing, because you cannot do more than what you can do one breath at a time!


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Friday, October 7, 2016

Day 332: Living the gifts of your unique circumstance

With the access we have to other people's live through social media, it's very easy to get caught up in comparing your life to another's; in particular those who we see as being more successful, more effective, more happy, more free - the list goes on. Within this it's very easy to form ideas about what you 'should' have, or what your life is 'supposed to look like', and then judge what you have as 'not enough', or 'not good enough'. This can lead to us missing out on the gifts and opportunities we in fact DO have in our unique life circumstance.

How can you benefit from identifying and accepting the gifts of your unique life circumstance, and letting go of comparison?

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Saturday, September 24, 2016

What Are People Like Donald Trump Showing Us About Ourselves?

The story in the video below is a reflection of what the entire system exists as. For wealth to exist for a few, there exist many whose labor is used to produce the wealth, and who are kept trapped in that labor through survival. Trump is merely using the system as it is designed / allowed to exist. 

Rather than blame and point fingers and talk about how nasty rich people are, the question we can ask ourselves is - where and how in our daily lives / in our minds do we consider ourselves only, while disregarding those in the world who do not and will never have what we have? And just as Trump said to the architect 'I've already spent so much money on this, I don't want to pay more' -- where and how in our own daily lives and minds do we say 'I'm already invested in my own life / my own interest, I don't have the time or resources to stand up for those who have nothing'?

We don't need more blame and attacking, we need self reflection and self honesty and the patience to investigate the actual core / origin points of world issues in ourselves / our own minds and lives.  


Tuesday, September 13, 2016

Day 331: 6 - Discovering your Potential Takes Time

Part 6 of how my Education Shaped my Career Path. Here sharing more about my first sales experiences, the pain of change, and how getting involved in something completely outside of my comfort zone had supported in discovering more natural skills and strengths that I hadn't seen before.

What if survival and access to all the support we need was a guaranteed human right, and the education system was based on supporting each child to develop a confident character with high self esteem, free to explore different kinds of projects and participation during their formative and adolescent years in order to discover where and how they can make a satisfying contribution to the world?

How many people's potential contribution has been compromised through developing a character that is not effective in practical reality?


Friday, September 9, 2016

Day 330: 5 - What I Experienced During My First Ever Sales Presentation

Education and my Career Path Part 5: What I experienced during my first sales presentation. Can you say....hell? lol

Through my first sales experiences I realized the extent to which how we 'feel' about the prospect of a particular job or career, is determined by our relationship to the words that define that job.


Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Day 329: 4 - Does Not Compute! Going Blank When Your Programming is Not Efffective

Part 4 of my series about how my Education shaped my Career Path.

Have you ever been in a totally new situation that causes you to go into absolute anxiety to the point where your words and physical stability actually shut down and you can't speak?

Here I share an experience from when I first was getting involved in business and education, when I walked into a school office to try and make an appointment. I can sum it up in 3 words: Does Not Compute!

This event opened the door to seeing the nature of my mind and behavior in a whole new way.




Saturday, September 3, 2016

Day 328: 3 - The Only Reason and Purpose that Makes Sense to Me

Part 3 of how my Education shaped my Career Path. Here I'm sharing the role Reason and Purpose played in my relationship to jobs, career, money, and skill development.

You may find that you don't see a reason or point to pursuing a career or participating in the world system, and that your life is mostly just a 'hobby', along with a job you work in order to get by.

What reason did I find that changed the way I looked at my participation in the world?


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