Day 349: Being Solution Oriented when Facing a Creative Standstill

I recently reached a 'creative standstill' in my painting, and here I share how I assisted and supported myself to apply being Solution Oriented in order transform this scenario from an emotionally charged experience, to a learning experience and opportunity to specify, redefine, and expand myself in relation to my process of skill development in painting.

Here is the Self Forgiveness that opened up, in relation to the points shared in the video:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to, when reaching a 'creative standstill', where nothing I'm doing / trying is producing results that I like, to immediately react within an emotional experience of feeling disempowered, failure, uselessness, pointlessness

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to interpret creative standstills to mean that 'this is not for me', and 'this is pointless', because 'this is not working'

I forgive myself that I have accepted and a…

Day 348: Desteni Principles: How I Live the word Peace in my daily Life

Sharing a dimension of the way I live the word Peace and what Peace means to me in my day to day life.

Dedicated to Desteni and everyone involved; grateful for the daily support, tools, and inspiration from everyone over the past 9 years of my life, which has enabled me to be consistent with being able to find Peace in a world of Strife, through learning how to take self responsibility for who I am and what I am creating myself as, and begin living my utmost potential.


Day 347: Desteni Principles: Building a paint rack in my studio

Sharing a bit about the role that the application of redefining and living words within practicality and common sense plays in my process of changing myself from someone who is 'hardwired for self disempowerment', to being someone who is solution oriented.

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Day 346: I only ever have to change for One Day

Do you struggle with stopping a habit or pattern? Do you get depressed and want to give up when you are in the process of learning something or developing a new skill or routine, and you have a day where you don't experience significant progress or results?

Have you considered that you only ever need to learn, apply, commit, live, change for ONE DAY?

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Day 345: Which Face and Voice Expressions do you React to?

Sharing how through a process of repeating conflicts (consequences) manifesting in my life, I finally asked myself the right questions which opened up why I kept falling into such intense reactions of defensiveness when someone would react within 'being upset' toward me. I found my reaction was more toward the specific voice tonality and facial expression of the person, which represented specific words which triggered deeply ingrained / programmed reactions originating from much earlier in life, connected to specific memories.

What's cool is that in getting a grasp on the real underlying points that I'm reacting to, I can then effectively take self responsibility to deconstruct and release myself from the hold of that reaction -- which is the hold of the PAST, which opens up new words to re-define and live which I had not previously considered, which support with expanding myself in being able to be stable and solution oriented, rather than emotional.

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Day 344: Reflecting on Life as a Destonian

Continuing from my previous Vlog, here I'm sharing more reflections on how my life as a Destonian, assisting and supporting myself with the tools of Breathing, Self Writing, Self Honesty, Self Forgiveness, and Practical Self Corrective Statements and Application, is different from my past experiences with using Spiritual Experiences to in fact suppress the negative rather than understand and change myself within and as it.

In upcoming Vlogs I'll be sharing many practical examples of interesting things I've learned about myself in my process of change and self creation.

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Day 343: Principled Living vs. Energetic Survival Intro

This vlog is an intro to me sharing my experience with the difference between Spirituality as positive experiences generated through knowledge, information and symbols -- and Principled Living as a Destonian, learning to stand One and Equal with all scenarios in my world.

Lots to share about how I've changed and the things I've learned about myself as I've been walking my process of Self Responsibility, Self Honesty, Self Forgiveness, and practical Self Corrective Action, within the principle of standing as Life as All as One as Equal, learning to live my Utmost Potential in the day to day reality of life on Earth in a Physical Body.

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